Thursday, October 22, 2009


I checked my main email account this morning and saw a message from a guy named Tom. The header said "Sorry if my post came off wrong"... me being the blonde was totally confused for a momento (because I don't read everything as in key word of the header: POST). I open it up to read this...
What did you think after you read it?


my response...
Ummm... who are you? And I never received an email from you? ~carrie
So still being oblivious, I went and logged on to blogger and found this...
This is the comment that was left for me yesterday on my post....
Tom Bailey said...
This is my first visit to your blog:So you are 29?Can not afford a decent place of your own?You can use your time wisely while living there to create a much better lifestyle for you in the future.
October 21, 2009 5:01 PM
I quickly wrote Tom back and said this...
I just found what you were talking about. No, I am not offended with what you wrote. ~carrie
But thank you for pointing out the obvious......
Yes, I am 29
No, I can not afford a decent place by myself... it's pretty pricey here in Va Bch.
I did at one point have a beautiful house... that we (ex and I) built and designed... (see for yourself the link is below)
But my cheating ex husband now lives there with his trophy wife (another Carrie) and there twin boys!
So thanks for making me feel like a P.O.S.! I take it back I was a little offended. You have NO idea what crap I've had to deal with in the past!


  1. What a f*cking douchenozzle!!! Tom, you're a bastard.

  2. um
    i am speechless.
    did he respond?
    way to go, girly.
    i love how people judge so quickly without walking in your shoes.
    i admire you!

  3. what a D.BAG!!!!!
    girly, you are making the best of everything. you are NOT a pos!! seriously, that is just rude! you are awesome, i luv ya!!

    dear tom,
    if ya don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all!!!!
    your mom would not be proud of you....

  4. Well I was just doing what I do and blogstalking and I came across yours. First of all, TOM -- you're a douche. Second, don't let random strangers make you feel like a POS. You are so super cute, love the blog :)

  5. omg. what a loser...seriously he needs to get a life and stay out of yours.

  6. hey girl! just tagged you for an award over at my place! = )

  7. WOW!!! I didn't know about that. And some people are just random, hit IGNORE! and go on.

  8. D-bag to the max! Why do people feel the need to spout their negativity off on other people's blogs? I don't get it.